When you have besties, sometimes you can go through stages and different experiences in life, where you need to take a break. Maybe, you start thinking negative thoughts about your bestie. Every bestie relationship is not perfect. Sometimes you might find yourself in a situation where, you have tried everything in your power to help your bestie friendship. Here are two simple steps to follow to erase negative thoughts about your bestie:
Write your feelings down in a journal
Write your feelings down in a journal about your bestie. All of the good and all of the bad thoughts, and see what you will come up with. Sometimes the good outweighs the bad overall! If the good does not outweigh the bad, try to write down some solutions and progressions you would like to see. This outcome may potentially, erase the negative bestie thoughts you have.
Talk with your bestie when you are ready
When you are ready talk to your bestie, about all of the things that you need to work on. Even if you have tried already, trying again can help with the negative bestie thoughts.